Thursday, September 08, 2005

Pre-Marital Sex

I support pre-marital sex. (sex before marriage with someone you really love, not fuck around)

Catholics are going to get me for this. Pardon me, I know the Bible says this and that. But hey, times have changed. Maybe, just maybe, we should have a new edition to match the expectation of modern times. This is blasphemous! I shall stop here.

Sex is 50% of relationship, the other half consist of love and responsibility. If you cant satisfy your partner in bed, the chances of him/her straying will be high. Sex is no longer a tool for procreation, its recreation!

What if you only discover the sexual incompatibility after marriage? Without a happy sex life, you will be heading to add count to our high divorce rate. (By the way, I prefer cohabitation before marriage too.)

Most arguments against pre-marital sex revolves around STD (sexually transmitted disease), unwanted pregnancy and keeping the best for your other half.

Man, by nature, are polygamous animals, anyhow they will still sleep around. And more women are doing the same. To keep STD or unwanted pregnancy in check, there are prevention methods. What we really need is a good public education programme! Sex education from young??

Sad but true, 8 out of 10 girls I know lose their virginity before age 21. (the other 2 have never had a boyfriend) Why fight a losing battle by advocating chaste before marriage? If you cant beat them, join them and play by their rules.

My suggestion, do it the Sillypore way: Raise the legal age of sexual consent to 18, throw those who flout the rules into prison.

Ps: forbidden fruits taste the best!


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3 Sightings:

Blogger kukukucinta said...

i tink nowadays girls lose their V b4 age i have a few very young fwens (i know thru online gaming) who have sex with their gf even tho they r not legal age yet!

6:21 PM  
Blogger Kurakat said...

You claim that "8 out of 10 girls I know lose their virginity before age 21." I challenge your claim! What kind of girls do you know? And what kind of person are you to meet such girls? Bcos your social network consists of 'birds of the same feather', it is not surprising that your stats are skewed.

Do not judge by appearance. Many girls who chose to remain pure till marriage do not announce it publicly. Modesty and humility is not as 'loud' as promiscuity. But they are around too. You need to get the facts right b4 u make a sound judgment.

Sex b4 marrriage brings you a whole set of emotional and marriage problems later which could have been avoided by simply not having premarital sex. I'll suggest you do some reading, talked to counsellors and widen your social circle. Than u will get a more balanced view of what's happening.

Hope u dun take offence at wat I say here. Cos it has never been my intention to offend. Have a nice day.

3:13 AM  
Blogger Otto said...

You raise rather interesting issues. I shall be back. Nice job there, Ghost.

12:34 AM  

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